道歉是人们日常生活中一种常见的言语行为,这一言语行为在人际交往中是必不可少的。冒犯者使用“对不起”“请你原谅”之类的表达来向被冒犯者致歉。要想实施道歉这一言语行为,冒犯者需要利用某些方法或者技巧来表达其歉意,这些方法或者技巧就被称为“道歉策略”。本文是关于道歉认错的英语美文，希望对大家有帮助!

关于道歉认错的英语美文：如何用英文正确道歉

An apology can’t fixeverything, and Benedict Cumberbatch seems to know that. “Thedamage is done,” he said in a statement to People magazine afterreceiving criticism for using the term “colored people” in anon-air interview with PBS’s Tavis Smiley。

一句道歉并不能挽回一切，本尼迪克特•康伯巴奇也深谙此理。在接受PBS主持人塔维斯•斯迈利采访时，康伯巴奇因为使用了“有色人种(coloredpeople)”一词而遭到谴责。他随后在美国《人物》杂志上发表声明表示，知道自己已经造成了伤害。

But an apology can, atleast, make a strong case that someone really is sorry. Bysignaling awareness of why what they did was wrong, of how it mighthave affected people, and how they will do better in the future,apologizers don’t quite erase their errors but do demonstrate thatthey see them as errors. Cumberbatch basically did all of thosethings in his statement:

不过，道歉至少能充分说明犯错之人确实心怀歉意。道歉者虽不能将他们犯的错一笔勾销，但通过表达自己意识到为什么这样做不对、知道自己给他人造成了伤害，并表示将来会如何改正，确实可以证明他们认识到了错误。而康伯巴奇在道歉声明中几乎都体现了这些内容：

I’m devastated to havecaused offense by using this outmoded terminology. I offer mysincere apologies. I make no excuse for my being an idiot and knowthe damage is done. I can only hope this incident will highlightthe need for correct usage of terminology that is accurate andinoffensive. The most shaming aspect of this for me is that I wastalking about racial inequality in the performing arts in the U.K.and the need for rapid improvements in our industry when I used theterm. […]

“用这种不恰当的术语冒犯到别人，我感到十分难过。对此，我表示诚挚的歉意。我不会为自己愚蠢的举动寻找借口。我知道伤害已经造成了。我只希望自己的这件事能够提醒大家要正确恰当地措辞，不要冒犯到别人。最令我羞愧的是，我当时正在讨论的就是英国演艺圈种族不平等的话题，自己却使用了这样不恰当的词。”

I feel the complete fool Iam and while I am sorry to have offended people and to learn frommy mistakes in such a public manner please be assured I have. Iapologize again to anyone who I offended for this thoughtless useof inappropriate language about an issue which affects friends ofmine and which I care about deeply。

“我感觉自己是一个彻彻底底的傻瓜。我很抱歉冒犯到了他人，对于在公共场合犯这样的错我很遗憾，请相信我会从中吸取教训。这件事影响了我非常在意的朋友。我在措辞时太过轻率，选择了不合适的词语，我再次向那些被我冒犯到的人表示歉意。”

His apology’s thoroughnesswouldn`t be worth noting if most public figures’ mea culpas weren`tso shoddy. The Internet has countless lists of famous folksbotching it, sometimes by passive-aggressively expressing remorseonly for people’s offense instead of the action that caused it, orby trying to explain away the mistake。

若不是多数公众人物的认错都太过敷衍了事，康伯巴奇认真的道歉也不会如此引人注目。网上名人们拙劣的道歉数不胜数，他们有人只是对自己的冒犯消极自责，却只字不提造成这样后果的行为;另一些人的道歉则像是试图推卸责任的狡辩。

Apologies like these canactually make things worse. When Don Lemon basically asked a rapeaccuser why she didn`t bite Bill Cosby and then responded tobacklash with, "If my question to her struck anyone as insensitive,I am sorry," it muddied the issue, implying that anyone who tookissue with the question was overly touchy。

这样的道歉只能雪上加霜。唐•雷蒙(CNN主播)曾因为问一个遭到强奸的受害者为什么没有直接咬比尔•考斯比(强奸犯)一口而引起轩然大波。而他却说：“如果我的问题让谁觉得冷酷无情，那我表示抱歉。”这简直就是“倒打一耙”，仿佛暗指别人在这个问题上反应过度。

Cumberbatch does nearlywalk into the chagrinned-white-person trope of referencing hisnon-white “friends,” but it’s not to excuse his own words—it’s todemonstrate awareness of why his mistake might matter. And it couldseem a little self-serving for him to hope that the “incident willhighlight the need for correct usage of terminology that isaccurate and inoffensive,” but he`s actually correct to do so. Theword “colored” was in popular usage not too long ago; it’s in thevery name of the NAACP. Some people may not realize that it’s beenlargely phased out because of its racist lineage and because somepeople of color feel it dehumanizes them. The publicity aroundCumberbatch`s slip-up could help remedy that in a smallway。

在提及自己的非白人“朋友”时，康伯巴奇虽也为措辞不当表示悔恨不已，但这并不是为了给自己找借口，而是为了说明深知错误的严重后果。他表示希望自己的失言能够提醒大家，正确使用准确且无冒犯之意的词语是十分重要的。这也许听起来有点以自我为中心，但事实上，他说的不错。就在不久前，“有色人种”这个词还被广泛使用，它甚至出现在了美国全国有色人种协进会(NationalAssociation for the Advancement of ColoredPeople)的机构名称中。而现在，这个词已不再使用，因为它和种族主义有着历史渊源，并且令一些非白人感到受到了侮辱。但有些人可能还未意识到。而此次康伯巴奇的说错话受到了社会关注，这在某种程度上起到了纠正作用。

There’s another upside tothis apology, in that it offers a reminder of how messy progresscan be. In the Smiley interview, Cumberbatch was talking about thedifficulties that nonwhite actors face in finding roles—an issuethat he and a lot of other people think deserves more attention. Soon one hand, you have a white man speaking out for racial equality;on the other, you have him employing a word that’s long helpedenable inequality. All in all Cumberbatch said he’s sorry, probablyin the best way anyone could hope for。

康伯巴奇的道歉的另一个积极作用，就是提醒了人们进步并非易事。在斯麦利的采访中，康伯巴奇谈到了非白人演员找角色的不易，这也是他和许多人都认为值得更多关注的问题。所以，一方面有一个白人站出来呼吁种族平等;而另一方面，他却用了一个长久以来助长种族歧视的词语。总而言之，康伯巴奇表达了他的歉意，也许还是以大家都希望的最好方式。

关于道歉认错的英语美文：Admitting guilt

承认错误

Giving advice is a lot easier than receiving it.

给予建议比接受建议更容易。

Telling someone that he was wrong is a lot easier than admitting that you made a mistake.

当然告诉别人他是错的比承认自己犯错误更容易。

Writing a timeout everyday is not easy but trying to live up to all of my timeout goals and ideas, gosh!

每天停下来想一想不是件容易的事,但试图用暂停来达到我的目标和想法,唉!

It's almost impossible.

这几乎也是不可能的。

I know someone who is great at giving advice but when you point out some area where he can improve him getdefensive.

我认识一个人,他的伟大之处就是在于给别人提建议，但当你指出他可以改进的一些地方时他就变得怀有戒心。

The more you try and tell him about a mistake he made the more defensive he gets.

而你越是尝试告诉他关于他犯的一个错误,他就越变得有戒心。

So for that person I've given up trying.

所以基于这个原因我已经放弃了尝试。

All of my friends have. I can't give up on my kids though.

我所有的朋友都是如此。但我不能放弃我的孩子们。

If my son makes a mistake and I pointed it out, the first thing that comes from his lips is 'No!' It's a blame refusal to admit his mistake.

如果我儿子犯了一个过错而且经我指出,他嘴里说出的第一个词就是“不!”。这是一种承认他错误的奇怪拒绝。

It's never 'Yes, daddy, you are right.' Or 'Okay mummy, sorry.' It's 'No, it's not my fault' or 'It's wasn't me.'

他从来没有说过“是的,爸爸,你是对的。或好妈妈,对不起。”一直都是“不,这不是我的错或者绝对不是我。”

I do the same things sometimes.

有时我也经常会做同样的事情。

Perhaps it's human nature.

也许它是人类的天性。

Perhaps my son got his habit from me.

也或许是有其父必有其子的缘故。

No! It couldn't be my fault, could it?

不!不可能是我的错,可能吗?

Talk about it：

谈论下面的话题:

Are you good at accepting advice?

你善于接受建议吗?

Are you quick to admit guilt?

你很快就会承认错误吗?

Do you apologize quickly?

很快你就会道歉吗?

Have you ever defended your actions even though you knew you were wrong?

即使你知道你错了，你有没有捍卫你的行为?

Do you know someone maybe in your family who tends to be great at giving advice but terrible at receiving it?

在你的家庭中有没有一个往往在给予建议时候非常伟大,但接受建议的时候就会变得很可怕?

Do you give good advice to your friends and family?

你给你的家人和朋友提出了很好的建议吗?

What kinds of problems do people talk to you about?

人们跟你谈论什么样的问题?

How does feeling guilty affect us?

感到内疚会如何影响我们?

相关文章拓展阅读：Apologizing and Giving Explanations

Miss Green:Mary, what happened to you? You are twenty minutes late today. We all worry about you, you know.

Mary Brown:Sorry, Miss Green. But can I explain what happened ?

Miss Green: Yes, please.

Mary Brown:OK. I was waiting for the bus at the bus stop when an old man standing nearby fell to the ground suddenly and lost his senses. I was so surprised that I didnt know what to do at first.Then I guessed that he must have had a heart attack. So I called the nearby police station.

Miss Green:Did they come?

Mary Brown:Yes, they soon came over and sent the old man to a hospital.

Miss Green:Good. Now I see what happened. You are a good girl, Mary.

道歉

格林小姐：玛丽，出什么事了吗?今天你迟到了20分钟。我们一直为你担心，你是知道的。

玛丽：对不起了，格林小姐，我可以解释一下原因吗?

格林小姐：可以。

玛丽：当我来学校，在公共汽车站等车时，站在不远处的一位老人忽然昏倒在地，我很吃惊不知道怎么办才好，后来猜想老人一定是犯了心脏病，于是就给附近的警察局打了电话。

格林小姐：他们来了吗?

玛丽：是的，他们不久就来了，然后把老人送进了医院。

格林小姐：太好了，现在我明白是怎么回事了。玛丽，你真是一个了不起的女孩啊!