在国际开放的今天，聚餐约会已经不止是中餐，西餐早已经频繁的出现在人们的生活中。我们不仅要学中餐礼仪西餐老油条还要学习去到高级餐厅的用餐礼仪。下面是为大家准备的高级餐厅用餐礼仪，希望可以帮助大家!

高级餐厅用餐礼仪

1. DO always dress nicely

第1项：请一定尽量穿得体面

‘Men should wear jackets to dinner, if not a suit’ Napier-Fitzpatrick said，‘Women should be wearing a dress or suit, and shoes instead of sandals.’

‘男士在晚宴里就应该穿正装西装，或者起码是休闲夹克西装’ Napier-Fitzpatrick说到，‘而女士，则应该穿裙子或者正装西装，配上鞋子，千万别穿凉鞋或者拖鞋。’

2. DON'T put phone on the table

第2项：请不要把手机放在餐桌上

DON'T put your cell phone, keys, or purse on the table. It's disctracts not only your other dinning companions, but also your waiter and the entire restaurant.

不要把你的手机，钥匙，钱包/女生小手包等放到餐桌上。因为这些都不仅会影响到其他用餐的伙伴们，也会有意无意(因为响铃，闪光等)影响到服务员和隔壁用餐的客人。

3. DO let your guest order first

第3项：请一定让你的客人先下单

其中道理中西方都一样，就是让客人(即你请用餐的贵宾)先点菜/下单，以示尊重。

这里你可以使用以下句子来体面地表述：

‘Will you please bring my guest...’

中文意思是“你可以给我这位客人奉上什么什么菜吗?”

‘My guest would like to order first'

中文意思是“请先替我这位贵宾下单。”

下次试一试用起来吧 ^_^

4. DO set up payment ahead

第4项：请预先告知餐馆你负责结账，如果你做东

‘A savvy host knows to give their credit card before they sit down, or even call the restaurant ahead of time.'

体贴精明的“东家”(通常指主动邀请别人用餐的人)应该事先准备好行用卡并在用餐前就交给餐馆，或者说事先跟餐馆打个招呼说“这顿饭我来做东”。

5. DON'T ask how much

第5项：点酒的时候要注意的小细节

‘Tell the waiter what you like, what you're having, and give them an idea of price by simply pointing to a wine in your price range. The waiter will know to stick within that price point.'

"告诉服务生你喜欢的酒品种，或者简单一些方向，然后也可以用手指点着酒单上的某款酒的价格，示意他/她需要这个价位的酒。那么，他/她就会明白你的意思，并为你介绍这个价格范围的酒。”最重要，不要亲口说出我要大约多少钱的酒，示意就够了。

6. DON'T return the wine

第6项：开了酒试过后就不要退回去了

‘The protocol is you have to keep it even if you don't like it because they opened the bottle for you.' Napier-Fitzpatrick said. 'However, if it really is aweful, you don't have to keep it. Politely explain the problem to your waiter.'

这个可能不常会发生，但是Napier-Fitzpatrick也提到说"大家都有的共识是：如果你自己选中了某款酒，服务员替你打开了酒并礼貌让你去品尝一点点。不要因为自己个人的不喜欢就退回去，毕竟餐厅是因为你的选择连酒都打开了。”当然，她也补充说“如果是酒变坏了或实在是本身出了问题，你最好先跟餐馆解释问题，然后再礼貌地要求退回去。”

7. DON'T take pictues

第7项：不要在客人面前给食物拍照

‘Everyone's starting to do that now. If it's not distracting other restaurant patrons and you can do it discretely, I would say it's OK. But if having dinner with a client, I would not recommend it. If the client waned to take pictures, however, I would of course let them.'

“现在越来越多的朋友习惯给食物照相，其实我觉得OK的。只是当和贵宾或者商务客人一起就餐的时候，最好就克制自己不要这样做了。但是，如果相反地你的贵宾或者客人露出想给食物拍照的冲动呢?那请礼貌地让他们去拍，自己最好还是要克制哦。”

8. DO order the same amount

第8项：最好点一样的份量

DO order the same number of courses as your companion. This avoids awkawardness and allows you to pace yourself with the the other person. Make sure to take your time eating and pause after every few bites - especially if you're the host, since you don't want to make your guest feel rushed during the meal.

最好点和你客人/贵宾一样的食物份量(当然这里是说在高级餐厅里，而且对方可能和你不是那么亲密的情况下)，以避免对方(因为点了太少或者太多而)感到尴尬。也请确保吃东西的时候你要腾出点间隔来和对方聊天，特别是，当你作为东道主的时候，不然你如果吃得太急(哪怕已经很饿了)，对方会误以为你很赶时间，而产生压力。

餐巾的使用

点完菜后，在前菜送来前的这段时间把餐巾打开，往内摺三分之一，让三分之二平铺在腿上，盖住膝盖以上的双腿部分。最好不要把餐巾塞入领口。